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COMING OUT - IT ONLY TOOK FIFTY YEARS IBD

DESERT PALM PRESS
09 / 2021
9781954213210
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Sinopsis

I knew I was gay at age eight when my mother?s definition of queer described me perfectly. I hid my truth and left small town Pennsylvania for the city life of Washington, DC. immediately after college graduation.My mother carried memories of tragic family deaths and a lesbian encounter of her own. When she questioned my lifestyle and said she would 'blame herself and not know what to do for the rest of her life,' I thought she might take her own life so, I lied. My father, raised in the non-traditional life of circus performers, unleashed me to be whoever I wanted to be but I continued my double life of straight daughter and gay lover.Then becoming a teacher and high school principal, I also lived a secret nocturnal life?my triple life. Bartending in shady parts of D.C., I was hit by a rock, saw a gun pulled on my friend, and witnessed fights, arrests, and marches that pitted straights against gays. I jumped from girlfriend to girlfriend, courted a few straight girls, and dabbled in activities far different from the straight educator I portrayed by day.On the day of my father?s funeral, my mother proclaimed her recognition of my gayness. What I hoped would be a celebration of love and openness was anticlimactic. I had wasted too many years. My father was gone, and I had lost friends rather than share my truth.Against the backdrop of the burgeoning LGBTQ movement, I became a courageous trailblazer and did my own coming out in a big way, I married a woman. Now I share my truth with the world and enjoy the happiness that honesty has given me.Do not make the mistakes I made. Openly love who you love.

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